In the last post on fears and phobias we experimented with using self-hypnosis to create change. Let’s look at this phenomenon in more depth.
Just as dreams can be a passage-way into the vaults of our unconscious, hypnosis can be a tool that also allows us access into this hidden realm.
We can think of the unconscious part of our mind as a kind of underground repository of old sensory experiences and actual and perceived memories that are outside of our normal daily awareness. Entering this territory seems to allow us to improve both physical and mental skills and change outdated beliefs. Without the inhibitions and negative thinking of our ‘conscious’ selves we seem able to tap into a powerful source of under-utilized abilities and talent.
Hypnosis allows us to heighten awareness and intensify focus without the visual, auditory and judgmental distractions of our surroundings.
Artists, athletes, writers, musicians and even scientists have instinctively known the usefulness of this altered state. (Albert Einstein is a case in point. When asked how he came to some of his beliefs about the Universe, he claimed that he often just allowed his mind to wander as he stared out the window. Einstein was probably describing the creative surge that can be triggered by a self-induced hypnotic trance state.)
You have most likely been in this mesmerized condition. For instance, staring into space, losing track of real time, and tuning out what’s going on around you can all be the characteristics of a trance state. In all probability, it’s a state of mind we enter when we need ‘time out’. If we want to stretch the definition of trance state we might also include hours spent in front of the television, listening to music, and reading a book. If you are immersed in another time and place when your body is in the present, you are in a trance state!
Think about when you enter into trance states. How aware are you of this?
The exact characteristics of a trance state and the process that enables us to enter it might be somewhat different for different people. It does seem however, that most of us enter this altered reality more often than we think.
Some of the things that trigger or induce trance states are:
Repetitive sounds
Echoing sounds
Humming sounds
Flashing light
Flickering light
Eye focus on one spot
Deep relaxed breathing
Rocking repetitive motion
Think of all the times that you unconsciously slipped into a trance with one of these triggers.
Without being aware of it from early childhood until the present moment, we are walking around in a hypnotic state. Think about the last time someone said, “Gee, you don’t look so good. Are you feeling okay?” Even if you were feeling great before they said this, chances are that you experienced a drop in energy and a vague sense of malaise. Opps! You just got caught in an unintended hypnotic suggestion.
In early childhood we are particularly open to these ‘suggestions’. As we grow older, these earlier ingested beliefs become fertile grounds for newer ‘postings’ of the same messages. Without intention, parents, teachers and others are planting ‘post hypnotic suggestions’ (thoughts that stick with us after the ‘trance’ is over) in the minds of their impressionable charges.
Think of all the messages you received as you were growing up that were negative. How many of these do you think continue to influence you today?
Once you realize how often you are walking around in a trance, it isn’t too big a leap to take conscious control of this process. By piggy backing on times you naturally “trance-out”, you can use hypnosis to:
Explore memories
Change negative beliefs
Change negative habits
Induce relaxation
Eliminate phobias
Here are two simple experiments to try: Plan to induce a trance state using one of the ways you naturally find yourself floating off. Make sure you do this in a safe environment. Increase the depth of your trance by breathing deeply and feeling your muscles relax.
Experiment # 1:
Once you are in this trance state, think about some belief that you want to change. Maybe you hate exercise? So, in your trance state tell yourself that you LOVE exercise. See yourself in the gym smiling and feeling great. Hear cheers as everyone around tells you how great you are to be exercising. Imagine how wonderful your body feels and how great it looks. Keep breathing deeply, take in all the good feelings and tell yourself that when you come back into this present moment you will remember and retain all the good sensations, and feel the desire to exercise.
Experiment #2:
Once again, induce your trance state.
Now imagine that you can float backwards in time. You slide down a time line into the past to an age you’d like to explore. Let yourself be aware of what you see and feel. Where are you? Who is around you? What do you experience? What do you hear? Tell yourself that you are going to bring back memories that make you feel good.
What happened when you tried this experiment?
You can now take this a next step by thinking of one of the negative messages you got as a child. Remember who gave you that belief. Using the same process as you did above, imagine that person saying something that makes you feel good about yourself instead. Assure yourself that you will come back into the present with the new message instead of the old one.
What do you feel when you try this?
Becoming conscious of the extent to which we are susceptible to being ‘hypnotized’ allows us to take back the power – become our own hypnotist and use this power to change old negative suggestions and add our own new positive beliefs.
Hypnosis is both a tool and a state of being that we can use more deliberately in our own lives for change and well being – and perhaps even more consciously in our interaction with others.
About Me
- C.Shapiro M.A. C.H.T.
- In private practice since 1973. Trained at the Gestalt Therapy Institute of Washington, DC. Educational background in Cultural Anthropology, Art and Education. I grew up as a Military Brat living in Spain, Japan and the US. I created a Bereavement program for NCJW which I ran for 10 years. I work with individuals, couples and groups.
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This is very informative. I have a kind of fear of being hypnotized, just because I have heard that it can open a person up to be influenced by hypnosis more easily in the future, but this self hypnosis sounds good. I realize how many times that I go into this state naturally, and it gives me a sense of more control, and I don't get that irrational fear from it.
ReplyDeleteSpot-on commentary regarding life long "scripts" that seem etched in stone for me. One of my questions is why I am so prone to embrace my early childhood "suggestions" and resist changing the script.
ReplyDeleteMusic almost always allows my mind to wander. Now I'd like to try some re-programing of old suggestions. I'm on it.
This is an area that I have experienced many times as I learned how to induce hypnosis on myself at an early age from a coach I had. I'm not sure I even knew what I was doing but it had a great affect on me as I could calm myself down in almost any situation. I also found that with practice I got better and better at being able to induce myself almost anywhere. I also used and still use this as a method of visualization practices for motivation purposes. For example I was on a plane zoned out from the noise and I was envisioning myself running very fast through a course I was about to run. I finished that run in the fastest time I had ever run and feel that the several times that I did visualize myself running the course helped me immensely.
ReplyDeleteI have tried this with music but have a much harder time letting myself go as I find myself concentrating on the music. My preferred method is white noise (i.e. The whirr of an airplane, or even a large fan). But the more I can not hear the better. I'm hoping to get back into this to where I am doing this once or twice a week as it seems to help me relax in my everyday life. I used to lay about 3 inches in front of a very large fan on the floor with it on high and a friend called it fanapy. (therapy).
I once had a ganglion tumor in my foot, which is a kind of benign tumor that winds around a nerve. Confirmed on an MRI and everything. These are pretty painful, and surgery was scheduled to remove it. Unfortunately, the surgery usually leaves you with some nerve damage in the foot; numbness and such. I was told about a certified hypnotist who specialized in working with medical cases, so I went to him, and began doing hypnosis and self-hypnosis. Our goal was to hopefully loosen up the tumor so that removal would be easier. Two days before the surgery, I really felt that something was different in my foot, and I called the surgeon. I went to his office to see him, and he examined my foot. He looked up at me in surprise, and said, "There's fluid in this! This isn't a ganglion tumor, it's a cyst!" He extracted the fluid, cancelled the surgery, and said that there had to have been some kind of mistake. I just smiled and went home.
ReplyDeleteThese are some great comments. Sarah, many people seem to have the same fear that you do and I think that a lot of it comes from those scary movie and tv images of hypnosis. (There's something called Stage Hypnosis that is more acting than anything else. Fun to watch, but not very real.) Let us know what happens as you experiment with self-hypnosis. You might try "Anonymous" technique with white noise.
ReplyDeleteBill, when you use the expression "etched in stone" you are giving yourself a hint about how to remove the 'script'. After going into a trance state you might try sand blasting the stone! Remember, with all of this you are empowering yourself and taking control.
Anonymous, your use of the expression 'fanapy' is great and might be a good memory tag for all of us. Thanks for sharing your experiences.
I had two off-line questions about the use of hypnosis. One came from a person with a medical condition who wondered if hypnosis could help. I am going to refer him back to Nursenancy's great story. Truly, what we can accomplish by harnessing our "mindpower" is amazing!
The other question was about retrieving lost memories using hypnosis. In this case it was someone who spoke a different language as a child and wants to know whether she can tap into that long unused ability. The answer is most likely yes, but obviously with a limited child's vocabulary!
Another great post, Carol. I have been using self-hypnosis as you suggest here. As a way of encouraging myself to adopt behaviors and habits that are healthy and productive (part of an ongoing process), I've begun visualizing my parents. Just before I fall asleep for the night, I picture my mom and/or dad praising me for my efforts and reassuring me that change is good. Their comments are very specific, and I try to make my sensory perception of them as vivid as possible. If nothing else, I've found that I sleep much more soundly and wake up with more enthusiasm for each day.
ReplyDeleteMainstream medical practitioners are still hesitant to recognize alternative health therapies merely because most of these techniques are yet to be methodically tested in order to assurance their safety and efficiency.
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